Oh Yeah, It’s Really Happening

June 3, 2010

in Beijing, Daily Life

I’m really a Beijing resident. I even got a little piece of paper from the local police station saying so. (Okay, it says I’m a temporary resident, but that’s all foreigners really can be here.) I’m here. I’ve got a great apartment. I’ve got an Internet connection. What more do I need?

How about a bathtub? And a separate shower? Central Air Conditioning? Hot water freely flowing from all the faucets, even in the kitchen? A laminate floor? An oven? A washing machine that also dries AND is capable of washing with hot water? A couch so comfortable you can actually sit on it for more than five minutes? A green landscaped garden space downstairs complete with indoor and outdoor pool? Yup, all the things I missed in my Linyi apartment. And I’ve got them now. I’m living big. I don’t mean to brag. I’m actually overwhelmed just a little.

This move doesn’t feel nearly as radical as, say, a move to Saudi Arabia. I’ve been in Beijing before. I know the culture, the language (some of it, anyway), the routines of Chinese life. Still, this is an adjustment. Beijing is so different from Linyi in so many ways. It won’t be a difficult adjustment, but I feel the bubbling of mini-culture shock nonetheless.

For one thing, my new apartment complex is crawling with other expats. (My landlady said the ratio of Chinese to expats is 70%-30%, but I read elsewhere it’s more like 50-50.) It is so bewildering to see kids riding bicycles and rollerblading around the garden area shouting out in English to each other. I can’t stop staring.

We’re living in the border area between Dongzhimen and Sanlitun, areas in the eastern part of Beijing very popular among expats. There are western restaurants, cafés and import food stores around every corner. I just don’t know what to think of it all. Don’t get me wrong, I’m planning on a cheese run later this morning, but I feel just a little bit weary of becoming too accustomed to the easy pickings of Beijing expat life. (Not to mention the expense of the imports!)

I had the help of a local Beijing friend in my apartment search. She contacted real estate agents and accompanied me on visits. Being a frugal person, she wanted me to see a full range of apartments, and we started off at several less-expensive old-style brick walk-ups. These are the buildings that have been in Beijing for decades, where you can find older residents in the courtyards sitting on stools and chairs chatting or playing cards. The buildings have a lot of personality (think meat products and undergarments hanging out the windows) and after living in a similar xiao qu (neighborhood complex) in Linyi, albeit newer, I was very open-minded about these places. I think it would have been fun to live in an older apartment that I could fix up and make my own. Alas, I was too romantic. The apartments I saw were dark, small and oddly decorated. The bathrooms were generally the size of a card table, complete with sink, shower and toilet. As much as I thought I was accustomed to living native style, these apartments did not speak to me.

Our first year in China we lived in a hotel room. The last three years have been spent in an apartment devoid of personality and creature comforts. To be honest, I feel a bit like a university student, just getting by. When I stepped into the apartment that is now mine, I knew my “university” days were over. And I knew there was no going back. I could not let this apartment get away. The DH and I put in an offer right away. It was just so comfortable, so neat and modern, so convenient to where we wanted to live. And did you see that list of amenities above!?

So welcome to Global Gal’s China Adventure Version 3.0 – The Grown Up Years.

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jen ambrose June 3, 2010 at 22:34

I’m very, very happy for you!
We’ll have to meet up at the Bookworm sometime.
Did you have to register with a Chinese name, too? They prefer that here, but I am guessing not all the security bureaus in BJ have that preference.

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globalgal June 6, 2010 at 16:50

Thanks, Jen! I’d love to meet up with you. When we registered they didn’t ask for Chinese names, in fact they never did in Linyi, either. I guess it’s time I got an official one just in case.

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Candice June 4, 2010 at 03:00

Hoooray! Even if it did take awhile, at least now you won’t take those comforts for granted!
.-= Candice´s last blog ..Sometimes Growing Up in a Bilingual Country Sucks =-.

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globalgal June 6, 2010 at 16:51

There’s so much I will never take for granted again! Travel and living abroad are amazing teachers.

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Sandra June 5, 2010 at 01:56

An oven??? I am so happy for you! We cannot wait to see some photos of the new digs.

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globalgal June 6, 2010 at 16:52

Photos after I finish unpacking and cleaning, hopefully this week. If I don’t have a breakdown over the visa situation…

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Gabrielle June 5, 2010 at 18:51

I am very happy for you, but completely jealous at the same time. :) I am anxious to see the picture of your new place and to hear about your new adventures!

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globalgal June 6, 2010 at 16:53

Thanks, Gabe! Feels so strange to be out of Linyi.

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L June 6, 2010 at 09:17

Your new apartment sounds great! Enjoy!

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globalgal June 6, 2010 at 16:53

Thanks, I’m really happy with it.

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elyssa June 24, 2010 at 14:57

Oh my god. I’m jealous of your pad. It sounds amazing!! I miss ovens! I’m living in the Sanlitun area too. We should meet up soon!

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globalgal June 24, 2010 at 15:09

I’m still super excited about my apartment. I love coming home. I don’t want to be a total homebody, however! We should meet up!

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Ashleigh June 29, 2010 at 03:56

Wow! Really exciting! I totally know what you mean. I love being in Spain, but I love having my Decoder box from the military that keeps us in touch with what is going on back in the US through the Armed Forces Network. We love being about to get all the great sporting events and our favorite shows from the states. You’re going native enough! Enjoy your new place!

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globalgal June 29, 2010 at 12:14

That decoder box sounds awesome!

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BLOGitse July 19, 2010 at 20:16

I just found you from SITS challenge page.
I started to read your blog and I noticed a familiar name, Sanlitun. My son lived there but has moved to Australia.
I’ve been to Beijing several times…it has change a lot since 1989 when I visited there the first time.
I’m an expat too. In Casablanca, Morocco…for soon 4 months. Before Casa we were in Cairo, Egypt for 2 years.
It was nice meeting you – I already subscribed your feed – I’ll be back! :)
Have a good day!
BLOGitse´s last [type] ..WELCOME to BLOGitse WP blogs!!!

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globalgal July 19, 2010 at 21:47

Wow, what a small world! It is always nice to find a fellow expat’s blog. I’ve just been to visit yours and loved the pics! I’m so grateful to SITS for connecting me with such cool people!

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Brendan August 16, 2010 at 00:53

Hi Heather,

Nice blog on Beijing. I enjoy and relate to a lot of what you say about living in China. I have lived in Shanghai for five years and am now moving to Beijing after two years in Seoul. I want to live in Dongzhimen close to the subway as it is so convienent for my job. i am seeking a one bedroomed apartment close to the subway station. How much rent would you recommend that I pay for a decent place? From my net search I am guessing around 3500 to 5000 RMB monthly. I would greatly appreciate your advice.

Brendan

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globalgal September 1, 2010 at 17:10

Hi Brendan, Sorry for the late reply, I’ve been away from my blog recently. I’ve sent you an email in response to your question.

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